Braxton's quickie for the day...
Email: Should a woman focus on vagina or clitoris for her first e-stim orgasm?
Now there's a question! First, lets rattle off a few things to think about:
1. 15% of women have never experienced orgasm.
2. 30% of women declare their orgasm to be vaginal.
3. The remaining 55% obtain orgasm via clitoral / labial stimulation.
Most women make an easy transition to e-stim because they don't experience confusion over the external vs. internal feelings that sometimes trip men up. Therefore, most women do fine by stimming their personal orgasmic "center".
If you should find that your transition is not easy, a quite effective alternative is to reserve your orgasmic center for masturbation, while stimming the other location. Example: If you normally have a clitoral orgasm, start off by stimming the vagina. Assist the stim orgasm with clitoral masturbation for the first few times.
And what if you're among the 15% who have never had an orgasm? Give serious consideration to combined stimming of the two locations. The anal sphincter is another potent location.