Braxton's quickie for the day...
A major paradox in sexual e-stim occurs with the perceived cues of the approaching orgasm. This impacts primarily men, along with women who consider their orgasm to be clitoral in nature.
Over our sexual career, we have learned the feelings of an approaching orgasm, to the point that we use those feelings to set expectations for the ongoing climax. The problem is that ordinary sex relies on friction for its results. With sexual e-stim, in the absence of friction, the same orgasmic cues simply do not apply.
Here’s the paradox: during a stim session, the more you focus on sensations from the glans (either penis or clitoris), the more you “push away” the orgasm. The proper mindset involves accepting the climax as a holistic event, with the triggering sensations being far more internal (and intense) in nature.
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