Braxton's quickie for the day...
It’s easy for a beginner to latch on to the notion that they are not official stimmers until they have achieved the Hands Free Orgasm. Translation: an orgasm which happens without any masturbation.
I counsel patience to anybody undertaking e-stim for the first time. Your body and your mind need time to acclimate to this new form of stimulation. As you know from past quickies and my ebook, I think the secret to consistent sexual e-stim (and by consistent, I mean an orgasm every time) is the assimilation of a strong mental routine. In order for your brain to effectively associate the power box signal with orgasm, I encourage beginners to resort to masturbation, rather than walking away from a frustrating stim session.
There is nothing wrong with masturbation, both inside and outside the context of stimming. If your stim serves only as an augmentation to what your hand is doing, it’s still a better experience than your hand alone provides. You will achieve a tremendous stimming advantage by adopting this attitude because it will liberate you from the mental torture that beginners suffer. The irony herein is that once you stop caring how the orgasm is achieved, you will have removed a significant obstacle to the Hands Free Orgasm.
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