Braxton's quickie for the day...
Probably my number one email subject from beginner males is a request for help with the “secret” of achieving a stim orgasm. The request is almost always framed in terms of selecting a particular power box, or the “magical” settings for that power box. Invariably, I will reply with one or more of the following points:
1. Yes, power box settings are important, but none of them come with a guaranteed orgasm. Once you have found settings that feel good, then place confidence in those settings and move on.
2. It’s a major mistake to seek a sensory replication of manual masturbation. E-stim is a superior sensory experience with different cues for an approaching orgasm. Until you have succeeded in a few stim climaxes, you simply don’t have the mental yardstick to gauge the progress of the orgasm. Without that yardstick, it’s all too easy to become frustrated with the perception that nothing’s happening.
3. The “center” of an ordinary male orgasm is the glans, because that is where the most intense feelings are focused. Contrast that with the stim orgasm, where the center is far more internal (probably the prostate). Just another instance of why the stim experience is different.
4. For most people, the secret to making e-stim a truly sexual experience is a good mental routine. My ebook, Currently Aroused, explains it all.
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