Braxton's quickie for the day...
Email question: When my wife and I stim together, she consistently has her orgasm before I do. Not that we are running a race, but I’m getting a little embarrassed to always be last. Can you offer any ideas for why this happens?
In the eyes of the Constitution, everyone is created equal, but the laws of stimming offer no assurance that any two people will have an identical reaction.
First we look at the physical factors. Some people are naturally better conductors than others, most likely due to electrolyte content. A true race would require that two individuals use identical stimming locations and methods. Obviously, you can’t stim your vagina, and she can’t stim her penis, so the two of you will never have a level playing field.
Physical factors aside, the BIG unknown is the mental game. If she has the better mental focus, that could easily explain the whole thing. Beginners almost always start out thinking that there’s a secret hookup that will instantly do the trick for them. Our ebook, Currently Aroused, emphasizes a strong mental focus that will enable you to consistently orgasm with any number of configurations.
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