Braxton's quickie for the day...
Email question: I would like for my wife and I to try e-stim. Do you have any suggestions for bringing her on board?
Our ebook has a chapter devoted to this subject, but I will address the first step here. As with anything new, especially in the sexual arena, if you are sincerely seeking her participation, I recommend that you both have a conversation before purchasing any equipment.
The goal here is to foment enthusiastic participation from both of you. The shopping decision should be a joint one, and you should make it clear that her guidance in selecting her electrodes is very much appreciated. For most beginner couples, the research that goes into the purchase is a great opportunity for mutual education.