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Steer clear of these pitfalls and your new e-stim journey will indeed be a smooth one!

Lose the "microwave" mentality!

Many beginners are prone to the viewpoint that e-stim is like using a microwave oven: to cook things fast, you merely set the controls for ample power and presto! You need a different approach.

You will discover that the correct analogy for sexual e-stim is the "slow roast". Veteran stimmers reach levels of intensity that simply would not feel good as a starting point, yet you can rest assured that they do not suffer...quite the opposite! What do they know that you don't?

Start the intensity at the minimal level which feels good. If that level is already half or more of the maximum intensity for your power box, you're probably already in trouble! Savor the signal at its present level for as long as it feels good. When the signal finally starts feeling "dull", take your first intensity bump-up. How high do you go? Only high enough to recover that original feeling of stimulation. You are climbing the ladder of nerve accommodation, which allows you to reach high levels of intensity without any overpowering sensations. For a good example of how often you raise the intensity, both genders can learn from A Male E-Stim Play-By-Play.

Lest you be concerned about having a "quickie" in the future, stop worrying. Once you have a few stim orgasms under your belt, there will be no problem in speeding things up!

Skip the distractions!

Few of us have the luxury of perfect privacy these days, but neither should it be impossible to get away from phones and other such distractions for your first few stims. Beginner stimmers need to allow for a higher level of focus their first few times.

After you have learned the ropes, you can find your comfort zone for a more realistic level of distraction.

Forget your orgasmic cues!

As young children, most of us masturbated as an innocent part of exploring our bodies, but do you remember your first attempt to masturbate purely for the sake of following those good feelings to some sort of "conclusion"? You may not have even known that the "conclusion" had a name! Do you recall your surprise when that thing you later called orgasm struck?

As you became more experienced, you quickly learned cues...little hints and feelings that told you where you were on your orgasmic ride. Those cues, which are now second nature to you, are of absolutely no help in your pursuit of a stim orgasm! Even worse, if you should happen to latch on to one of those cues with an "Oh, boy! Here it comes!" mind-set, you might defeat the stim orgasm altogether!

So what should you do? The first thing is to accept that you have absolutely no idea what a stim orgasm will feel like. You simply must enjoy and soak up the delicious sensations you are feeling from down below. Those sensations will come in waves. Rest assured there will be many waves and you will reach a point that you feel you are constantly knocking on orgasm's door. Simply open up to the stim and allow it to run its course The orgasm will continue to build internally and you will be caught completely unaware when it erupts at last!

Just as you learned your original cues, so you will learn new ones for your stim climax. As you learn these new cues, you will find that you are becoming a much more efficient stimmer. You will soon reach a juncture where you feel that your stim orgasm is on autopilot, which only increases your level of relaxation and enjoyment.

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