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March 07, 2013

Email question: I want to try e-stim. Could you tell me how long it takes for a stim orgasm?

There are a lot of variables that go into the answer for your question: age, time since previous orgasm, level of arousal, emotional frame of mind. As we age, the time needed for orgasm generally increases. The longer you have been without an orgasm, the shorter the time requirement. As with ordinary sex, the more aroused you are, the less time to climax. Lastly, if you have other things on your mind, your orgasm will be delayed.

Having stated the major variables, the average time to arrive at a stim orgasm generally falls anywhere from 30 to 90 minutes. The truth is that most stimmers could easily hasten their orgasm. Instead they find that the build-up to the orgasm is something to be savored, not rushed.

March 09, 2013

A reader asks: In your book you speak of the Instant and Automatic Orgasm with a negative connotation. Is there anything wrong with having a quick stim orgasm?

If you are blessed with the natural ability to have a stim orgasm that is quick and automatic, then you should consider yourself to have a gift, because the vast majority of stimmers do not arrive at their first orgasm with ease.

In the ebook, I do speak quite negatively of the Instant and Automatic Orgasm, but I need to provide some context for that label. I came up with the term out of anger that many beginners walk away from e-stim after one or two attempts because they buy into the notion that a stim orgasm is as easy as hooking up and applying current. In the ebook, I make the comparison between your first stim and learning to drive a car. In either case, there are so many things to assimilate before the driver/stimmer arrives at a point that this new act begins to feel natural. For either process, it is tremendously unfair to expect smooth sailing on the first attempt.

Anna and I wrote the ebook in an effort to spare beginners from this pitfall, in order that they can successfully cross the bridge to the immense rewards that e-stim offers.

March 10, 2013

Email question: Most of the online e-stim videos I’ve seen portray men. Why don’t women feel inclined to make more videos?

First, there’s the gender composition for e-stim: I will take an educated guess and peg it at 60% male and 40% female.

Secondly, we have to look at the “show biz” value of an e-stim video. I’m sure you will concede me the assumption that when it comes to online videos, anyone without clothes has more viral appeal than someone clothed. Nonetheless, when it comes to a video of an e-stim orgasm, the male has the edge because of the ejaculatory throbbing and semen projectiles. Having said this, I know I’m in trouble if I don’t at least tip my hat to female ejaculation as well. Incidentally, I know that any video can be “enhanced”, but there is a sound basis behind the stronger e-stim ejaculation: the signal can significantly increase the ejaculatory contractions/spasms.

As for why women feel less inclined to make videos, I think it is more the case that male stimmers can become obsessed with showing the world their ejaculation, hence the proliferation of videos. There’s an irony in this. Anna and I have observed that when it comes to email communication, women are far more open in their discussions of stimming than are men. In fact, we’ve had several ladies to relate (quite humorously) that they stim while performing daily activities such as household chores or jogging, We have yet to hear from any men in this regard.

March 11, 2013

Readers have asked me if I am not a little paranoid when it comes to e-stim safety, and I would have to plead guilty to that charge. Whatever the pursuit, I am a great believer in safety rules and routines. Why? In e-stim, if you have established a safety-based method of “hooking up” and “unhooking” your configuration, there’s nothing to think about. It is only when you deviate from your established method that trouble can start.

The philosophy of the previous paragraph permeates the ebook. Once the reader establishes their own routine, then they can stim within a comfort zone that permits a consistent orgasm to happen. This is just further proof that stimming is far more about the mental game than about the power box.

March 12, 2013

To all male stimmers and those entertaining same: this is probably not new material for a quickie, but based upon email frequency, it bears mentioning (again).

Around anywhere from the mid-30’s on, male stimmers generally have to deal with the prospect of an erection that is not 100% from start to finish. This can happen even if you are “reliable” during intercourse. Yet, a lot of males in this category insist on continuing to use a sticky pad for penis stim.

Sticky pads require good, firm real estate to function properly. When the real estate vanishes, or changes shape, then Houston, we have a problem! A man has two choices in this situation: he can accept the fact that he will have to detract from his stim by making multiple pad adjustments, or he can do the sensible thing and switch to a CurrentLoop.

A CurrentLoop is far more forgiving, and it can function equally well even with no erection at all. Enough said.

March 14, 2013

Today’s quickie is an effort to eliminate some of the frustration of The Great Hunt For The Prostate.

A number of men (and/or their spouses) are in pursuit of the prostate, or to be more precise, the location of the prostate for purposes of stimulation, either manual or via e-stim. If only Mother Nature had provided better clues…but she didn’t.

First suggestion: Due to its close proximity, men sometimes have an easier time “sensing” the prostate via manual manipulation of the perineum (the area between the scrotum and the anus). Even if your objective is internal massage, nailing down the location via the perineum can oftentimes help with locating the prostate via the anal canal.

Second suggestion: If you’ve already decided on e-stim, this should cut down considerably on hunting time. Insert a well-lubricated anal electrode, preferably one with some length, and go fishing! Our CurrentProMax Prostate Stimulator is perfect for this approach. You will want your power box connected and with sufficient amplitude that you have no problem feeling the signal. Proceed slowly, because sometimes you can be on the prostate without immediate recognition. Please be careful about standing while you do this. Why? The prostate is a close neighbor of the sciatic nerve, which can produce leg spasms if stimulated.

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