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Getting The Sex Back! A Senior Wife Tells How
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I'm pleased to report that my little experiment with electro stim has met with success! You're welcome to share my story if you feel that others might benefit!
My husband Jim and I have been blessed over our years together with a rich sex life. That is, up until his heart attack two years ago! It was a close call and the doctor thought it best to forget about any further intercourse.
I've been told that every person has their own unique reaction to a serious medical event. Jim and I were having sex when his heart failed. Because of this, Jim became averse to all things sexual! I kept telling myself that this strong reaction would subside and I would eventually see a glimmer of the old Jim.
A year passed without any positive change in Jim's fear of sex. At his next appointment, I pulled the doctor aside and told him I needed to speak with him privately. We arranged to speak by phone. He called the next day and I filled in the picture about Jim and his fear of sex. I asked the doctor if he had intended a complete ban on sex. He replied that Jim must avoid physical exertion, but if I were willing to be creative, then Jim could still enjoy an orgasm!
Before his heart attack, Jim had expressed an interest in using electro stim to milk his prostate. It occurred to me that this could be the ideal thing for Jim's sexual revival! I did some online shopping and ordered the kit for couples. My plan was simple. I would use electro stim for my long overdue sexual pleasure. With any luck, Jim's curiosity would take care of the rest!
When the timing was right, I announced to Jim that I had gone without sex long enough and I would be in the bedroom with my new electro stim kit! He looked like a deer caught in the headlights!
I retired to the bedroom, got naked, and hooked everything up. The feelings were unbelievable! It had been so long! I was like an orgasm factory as they rolled out non-stop! I made sure to scream out each climax so that Jim would hear it.
When I finally opened my eyes, there was Jim standing over me. I stood up, grabbed his hands, and placed them on my breasts. He kissed me and then it became obvious that he was unsure about what to do next. It was then that I divulged my conversation with his doctor. I further explained that from now on I would be using electro stim to milk him to orgasm!
Stimming Jim was a piece of cake. I hooked him up and watched him enjoy his first round of electric sex. I maintained a slow and steady pace to minimize any exertion. He continued to dribble semen for about an hour and fifteen minutes. When he was milked completely dry, I turned off the power and removed the electrodes.
The look on Jim's face told me all I needed to know. I had my man back and that was all that mattered!