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One Man's Quest For His Hands-Free Orgasm
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For anybody unfamiliar with the term, a hands-free orgasm, also called an HFO, is what many stimmers consider the holy grail of sexual e-stim. As the name implies, to achieve an HFO is to reach a stim orgasm without any masturbation whatsoever.
This email offers an excellent account of the minor travails that sometimes hinder that magical first HFO.
In accordance with our policy on published emails, this man's account is submitted with permission. Names have been changed to protect privacy.
I would like to thank you for your time and good advice concerning my first hands-free stim orgasm. Now that I'm enjoying my new HFO, I thought that other men looking for their first one could benefit from my experience. As your book says, it's all about the details!
Let me start by saying that from the beginning, the stim has always felt great! The penis and the rest of the male ensemble give off feelings that I had been convinced was only part of puberty and my teen years. To get those feelings back is an incredible antidote for all my fears about aging and declining male prowess!
When my kit arrived, you'd better believe I wasted no time in trying it out! I wore CurrentLoops behind the penis head and on the scrotum. I was eager to take the full ride, so I inserted my CurrentProMax too. The mild pressure against my prostate gave me the nicest erection I've felt in many a day.
I turned on the power and started climbing the intensity ladder. Every time I kicked up the power, it only felt better! I had been stimming for about a half-hour when I could see that the stim was forcing out a few drops of cum! To keep this thing in perspective, you need to understand that when I masturbate, I tend to be a "leaker". Nevertheless, I was thrilled to see some results!
Unfortunately, that's the point where I hit a wall. It felt like I had the pot boiling, but I didn't know how to make it boil over! At long last, I powered down long enough to slide my CurrentLoop from the head down to the "root" of my penis. That done, I powered back up and started a slow hand stroke back-and-forth over the head. The stim had made it huge and sensitive! This was masturbation like I had never felt before! With the combo of penis and prostate stim, the orgasm was building up from somewhere deep inside.
When I erupted, I had already leaked so much fluid that the remaining cum came out in curds of white jelly! The stim had really increased the load and it was everywhere!
The next day I told Braxton what was going on with my stim. He made a point of assuring me that I had done the best thing by switching over to masturbation, because the brain needs to start associating the orgasm with stimming. Here was the rest of his advice:
- He recommended for my next few stims that I focus strictly on the penis and scrotum.
- He told me to read the book in between stims. It proved to be a very quick read! It was easy to relate what I read to my recent stimming.
- He told me that beginners almost always use too much power, so make sure when I bumped the intensity that I raised it as little as possible.
His advice was a big step in the right direction. By stimming only with the CurrentLoops I had feelings that were similar to the feel of masturbation.
The book taught me that stim feelings arrive in waves. I think I had been going into a small panic each time the wave ended, because it felt like I was losing my orgasm. At last, when I accepted the waves, instead of fighting them, I knew I had made progress!
The final piece of the puzzle was the intensity control. Braxton was right! I had been using twice the power I needed! I learned that a good stim is a teasing of the penis, the balls, and the prostate. Only when that tease wears off do you raise the intensity just enough to get it back!
On what proved to be my "graduation" day, I launched my seventh stim. I had adopted a personal rule that my stim would last for an hour. If the hour passed without orgasm, I would switch to masturbation. About twenty minutes into it, I had this incredible visual of my wife going down on me! (I'm sorry to say she's never done that in reality.) The stim feelings were completely in synch with the visual. I started doing a mental replay of that visual with each new stim wave.
Somewhere around the forty-five minute mark, I started suspecting that this was the real thing! My penis head was so bloated that it felt impossible to have any kind of emission. I was also feeling an internal sensation, similar to an itch in need of a scratch. I knew from the book that it was time to do a slow grind against this internal feeling. The more I did it, the more I could feel this mega-orgasm begin to move from its internal home, up the shaft of my penis, stretching the head as tight as a drum! It was creating a wonderfully unbearable sensation and only getting more urgent by the second!
I found myself alternating between praying for this feeling to last forever and begging for the ejaculation to burst through the barricade of my incredibly swollen penis head! When it finally happened, the cum flowed forever, taking all of my past frustrations with it.
If you have yet to feel the pleasure of your first HFO, I'd be willing to bet there's something in what I've said here that might turn the key for you! All I can say is keep trying, because I know you'll love the reward!
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